Time for a New Blog Name?

Hello folks,

This chronicle of written life events is about to take on a major transformation.  We are no longer 5 kids and a boat.  We will be traveling by land on wheels, and there will not/should not, be 5 kids aboard.  Some should be college-bound.  I am excited about what is to come.  I won’t need a captain for every move I make and I will not be learning to operate a 63′ yacht.  I already know how to drive, all I have to master is how to navigate 50′ of vehicle.  I’m certainly not going to underestimate the complexity.  I know it will be no easy feat, but will pale in comparison to running a small ship.

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I’ve been thinking lately as I will soon start counting down to take off.  This school year is almost finished.  I have next school year, and then, the 12 months following, I will make my purchases.  There will be a lot of shopping around to be done and I want to give myself plenty of time to make the right choices and get both of my new vehicles (new-to-me-vehicles) ready to hit the road.  I like to view time in terms of months, rather than years when I’m ready to go but forced to be patient, because the wait seems more palatable in months.  If all stays well, then my 24 month count down to the next chapter will start this summer 🙂

But, what about the blog name?  Seems we may need a new name… and… possibly a new web address.  Any ideas?


What do you think of a new name? Any thoughts? Love your feedback.  Leave a comment and your 2 cents.


Let the Planning Begin!




Well folks, I have given the boat/rv decision a lot of thought and I… THINK…I am going to go with the rv for now.  The biggest factors in this decision were:

  1. Maintenance – I have heard that rv’s will require less maintenance than a boat
  2. Ease of use – I won’t need a captain.  The learning curve to drive the thing is much easier than a boat.
  3. Cost – The acquisition cost is much less and the living expenses can be much less.
  4. Accessibility – I can travel to more places with an rv, as opposed to being” water locked”

With this decision the only real con, and it is a biggie, is that I really LOVE being on the water.  But, it’s ok.  I can park my rv on the water 😉  So, the new plan is to take the next 24 months or so and figure out all the stuff that I need to figure out in regards to used or new rv, what kind of truck I’ll need, so on and so forth.  Then, make my moves (purchases).  My older kids will be out of HS and on to college (hopefully) soon and I should be ready to roll then.  I do plan to full-time rv and I do plan to be on the move.

So friends… let the planning/learning/shopping begin!  This ought to be interesting.  If any of you out there have any experience with rving, and would like to give words of advice, please do share.  One thing I know is that when I was buying my boat I got a lot of good advice from a lot of different people.  Likely saved me from making some dumb learning curve mistakes.  So I am always very open and appreciative when I receive knowledge from those who are doing what I am planning.  So, don’t be shy 🙂


(maybe I should change my blog name….hmmmm)



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What do you think of my decision?  Love your feedback.  Leave a comment and your 2 cents.

Water or Wheels?

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I can’t believe that I haven’t written a post since November!!!  We are doing GREAT here in San Diego.  My kids love the lifestyle.  They frequently go to the beach for gym.  They swim in the high school pool every day.  They have bomb-fires on the beach and all that fun California stuff that teens do; stuff that you would never in a million years get to do back home in Boston.  The sunsets are amazing.  The weather is a dream.  The waves are INSANE!  Not a single day passed this winter when I didn’t open my front door in amazement and complete appreciation that it was 72 degrees.  Every day!!!  What a beautiful freakin’ thing; consistently amazing weather.

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We have been having fun selling all kinds of stuff online on Ebay and Amazon.  We are just a few minutes away from direct supply of handcrafted goods from Mexico: blankets, serapes, hoodies, and we have recently discovered the wonderful world of wholesale LA and ventured into shoes.  Who would of thought this real estate junkie would be suddenly entrenched in the world of fashion.

But…all good things will one day change.  My oldest son will be applying to college next year.  Soon they will be off.  Or at least some of them will be off and I have been thinking a lot lately about whether to jump into another boat or maybe try an RV.  I know that I swore I would never step foot in an RV again, but, I must admit that I have been intrigued by the fifth wheel lately.  The newer models are just like apartments.  An RV, would allow for interior exploration of the country.  Problem is, I really am a saltwater fool.  I’m just not sure how long I could be without the ocean.  I miss my Hatteras and the kids miss her too.  But, on the other hand, an RV would be much less maintenance and upkeep.  I’ll need to give this more thought.  But I know one thing for sure.  We’ll be taking off again soon enough….

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What do you think?  Boat or RV?  Love your feedback!!!  Leave a comment and your 2 cents.

Big Changes


Hey guys!!! I apologize for not posting in a long time.  Some very nasty people tried to hurt my family by jumping to conclusions and trying to hold my own blog against me.  I worked it all out and all ended well (after all, my Mom is from South Boston; I was raised a fighter and to not to let anyone mess with your family) but frankly, I was so pissed over the whole thing that I no longer felt like posting.  I had even considered taking my blog down altogether, but in the end decided not to, because I’m not going to let them alter my life.

I have received e-mails and blog comments wondering what is going on.  Thank you for the concern and well wishes.  I promise to respond to everyone who has contacted me.

In a nutshell, I sold my beautiful boat.  We had a dreadful winter in Boston and I decided that I no longer wished to live that way.  I decided that the time had come to live a happier, warmer life.

In August, after the boat closed, I got rid of all of my belongings and put my kids on a plane to California.  So far, we love it.  Besides the benefit of a major weather change, people here are so much friendlier and more laid back then in Boston.

How to Be a Winter Liveaboard


This was the snowiest winter on record here in Boston.  Although this was my first winter as a boat owner and liveaboard, I feel like I have earned my stripes and learned a few things.  I want to pass this knowledge on to other newbies, as I had a tough time finding out certain things.


1. What kind of heat will I need?

I had to mention this first because for a long while I wasn’t sure if a diesel heater was really necessary.  I had done a lot of research and talked to a few people, but still wasn’t sure if it was worth the hefty expense.  I know of a couple of liveaboards here in Boston that used electric heaters.  One guy has a similar boat to mine.  He lived aboard for 7 years without a diesel heater.  Yes, a boat this size absolutely needs it.  Quite frankly, I have no clue how he did it.  He mentioned to me in a conversation that he has had hoses freeze and had to shut off certain parts of his boat.  But, even still, before my diesel heater was installed we had some pretty cold nights, and even with the electric heaters running it was cold.  I left the block heaters on all the time, because I wasn’t taking any chances with my engines and the electric bill was crazy because of it.  You can only put so much electric load on the system, so I could only run 4 electric heaters together without popping a breaker.  In January when we were in negative wind chills and single digit temperatures, there is no way we could have stayed on this boat without the diesel heater.

My Webasto keeps the boat warm and dry.  We had no condensation, no mold, and this boat is warmer than any house that I have ever lived in.  Plus, there is a heating element in each engine room and the generator compartment, so there is no need for the block heaters when the system is running.

Now, I must say, that if you have a smaller boat, a couple of electric heaters will do the trick.  Our neighbors have electric heaters and they are fine.  But, big boats like mine, will not be warm without a diesel heater.

I should probably add that if you are going to install a diesel heater, be sure that your fuel tanks are full.  I know it sounds obvious, but my neighbors installed a diesel heater at the same time that I did, but could only use theirs through February because they didn’t fill their fuel tanks.  For about a week they hauled diesel from the gas station, but gave up and plugged the electric heaters in.  They couldn’t just go get more fuel because they would have had to remove their shrink wrap and they weren’t willing to do that.  So, fill your tanks before you wrap.



2. Should I shrink wrap?

I had already made up my mind that I would shrink wrap in the winter.  After all, this boat is in amazing condition, and the thought of snow on the deck made me cringe.  I spoke to a few boaters before winter hit.  One guy told me that although the shrink wrap keeps the snow of the boat, it doesn’t help at all with heat.  That was absolutely false.  The day that I had the shrink wrap installed, I immediately felt the difference, that same afternoon even.  It is the greenhouse effect.  It can be 10 degrees outside and as long as the sun is shining, the upper living level of this boat (salon, galley, pilothouse) will be at 87 degrees with no heat on.  You can sit on the foredeck, aft deck or flybridge in shorts and not be cold.  In fact, some days I would complain about it being to warm and have to open the pilothouse sliding doors and aft door to try and get air through.  You loose the view all winter, but it’s worth it to keep the boat in nice condition and to keep warm.


3.  How do I get water to the boat?

Heat tape works!!!  All cold weather marinas have to shut the water off in the winter to the docks.  Otherwise, the pipes freeze and burst.  Some marinas, like ours, will run pex lines and drop them under the water, so that boaters have water in the winter.  All that you have to do, if you’re like me and use a lot of water and don’t want to have to fill your 350 gallon tank every 4 days (which takes an hour to fill) is attach a garden house to the pex fitting under the water, run a line of heat tape up the hose, secured with electric tape and cover with insulation.  Now, your water connection from under the water to the boat, wont freeze.  In theory, the water line won’t freeze while submerged in the harbor water.   But, of course, there is an exception.   I have learned that fresh water freezes at 32 degrees, but salt water freezes as 28.5 degrees.  In a normal winter the water stays above 32, but we had an unusually cold winter this year, so the water temperature in Boston Harbor dropped to about 29 degrees, which meant that although the harbor wasn’t frozen (at least were we are) the freshwater line did freeze in February.  I have learned a good lesson from this.  Always keep your freshwater tanks full, even if you are using dock water.  I awoke one morning and had no water.  I was surprised when I pulled the water line out of the harbor and saw that it was frozen.  It was Sunday, so the marina maintenance man wasn’t around.  I had very little water in my freshwater tanks.  I had to wait until Monday to fill my tanks from the spigot on the marina building with a very long hose.  I learned to keep them full at all times, because you never know when you might need them.  But, when March hit, the water temperature went back above 32 and our continuous water supply was back.  That day was a happy day.



4. Storms-Are they scary?

Not really.  The bark is way worse than the bite.  I have a big boat, so we don’t have a lot of movement in storms, relatively speaking.  Some of my neighbors were bouncing and being knocked all about and I don’t think I would have been able to stay aboard with that much constant movement.  But, my kids didn’t even mention it.

The noise is bad.  Especially during your first big storm, you will think your boat is being torn apart.  But it is just the sound waves from the floating dock and pilings being bounced off the hull, making it seem like you are hitting something when your not.  It’s important to keep in mind, that many of these boats were designed to handle much worse.  After my first storm, and seeing that my boat was still in perfect condition afterwards, I knew what to expect and the noise didn’t worry me as much.

The biggest concern is to keep an eye out for any snapped lines.





All in all, I would say that this was a great winter for us.  At least the best winter that I have ever had.  Now this is coming from someone who absolutely despises cold and snow, but having this boat, softened the blow.  I still hate winter, but it was fun being aboard, even though it was a record breaking season.  This was a crappy winter, but the best one that I have had because of the joy of owning the boat.  Now, I think that I should probably give a lot of credit to Hatteras.  I watched boats around me with frozen water tanks, mattresses frozen to hulls, busted water lines, cold air leaks and all kinds of winter related problems.  We didn’t have any.  Nothing froze, nothing broke, and no problems.  I expected there too be at least a few, but nothing.  This boat has absolutely exceeded my expectations.  Sonny told me many times that she is a “good boat” and he was so right.  I’m really beginning to understand why Hatteras has the reputation that it does, for having built these great “overbuilt” boats.  I am really happy that I chose to purchase a Hat, especially as a new boat owner.  I know that my decision, especially with this boat, was a good one.


How was your winter?  Love your feedback.  Leave a comment and your 2 cents!!!

The Blizzard of 2015


I was very concerned with news of this storm.  I spent the day yesterday checking my fenders and lines.  Did I have enough protection?  Would we be blown off the dock?  How much rocking and movement would we experience?  Would my shrink wrap blow off?

Last night was really nerve wracking.  The wind gusts were very intense.  The boat would slam back and forth, knock the dock, bounce off, then yank the lines.  The lines all screeched from the tension.  The shrink wrap rumbled in the strong gales. The worst was the pounding, slamming, crashing noises that I could hear from the hull.  I couldn’t figure out what could be crashing into the boat making such a loud banging noise.  It took me a few hours to figure out that the floating dock was slamming the pilings and the vibration was being carried through the water making it seem as though the hull was being slammed, but it wasn’t, it was just the sound being carried.

I must have gotten out of bed 10 times last night, checking the boat as much as I could.  The problem is you can’t see anything out of the shrink wrap and the wind gusts were too strong to take the chance opening the plastic door.  I tied a rope on the door so that I could open it about 6″ without the wind taking it.

I finally fell asleep at about 4am, and woke at 7am, to a calm.  I could tell at that moment that the worst had passed.  The high wind gusts were over.

I got dressed and went out to check for any damage.  I opened the pilothouse door and I was surprised that so much snow had blown in through a 2″ gap under the plastic shrink wrap door.  All of our shoes and boots were covered with snow and I had to remove snow from the electric and water inlets.

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When I got outside I was relieved to see that 45 Gaege was still in perfect condition.  Thankfully, my fenders had done their job.

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The trick is to pull the boat in without going for a swim.

The trick is to pull the boat in without going for a swim.

The intense pressure on the bow line snapped it over night pulling the boat about 5′ off the dock, so I had to wait for the boat to blow in to re-board.  My Mom came out and we cleared the cleat, pulled the boat back in, and ran a new bow line.  The bow line that snapped was a 1″ line.  Other than that, all was good.  This storm isn’t over yet, but the worst is done, for us.  The heavy wind has passed.  It can snow all it wants now.

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Hatteras Motoryacht Refit Update

I know that I haven’t posted for a while.  I have been very busy, and I didn’t want to do another post until certain projects were completely complete, which they aren’t quite, but I felt bad that several of you had to e-mail me to see what was going, so here it is.


I’m psyched to have my furniture aboard.  My kids say that now it “feels like home”.  I couldn’t agree more.  I also love the way the hardwood floors look in the salon.  I went with Brazilian Koa.  It compliments the teak walls nicely.  The only thing that kills the room is the wall valances and cornice boards and the grimy old 80’s wall light fixtures.  This project is next on the list.  My Mom and I are going to tackle it ourselves.  It will be interesting.


I dumped the old dining room table and went with a table half the size.  I think it works much better in the space.  Gaege has plenty of room to play on the floor and I am happy that I can walk around the table.  It does have a leaf so I could make it larger if needed, but we managed to make it through the holidays with lots of family visiting without having to add the leaf.

DSC_0005 The galley came together.  This is the wall that has a completed backsplash.  I went with a stainless peel-and-stick because I didn’t want to deal with removing the old formica.


I had an appliance garage custom fabricated by the cabinet people.  I wanted to utilize the dead corner space.  I had the garage made with 2 doors, so that it can be opened from both sides.  It makes great spice storage and I’m glad that I did it.


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I couldn’t wait to have the ugly green dinette cushions re-upholstered.  I called about 4 upholstery companies.  3 of them said that they do not do on-sight work.  My dinette is not removable.  The 4th company said that they would come to the boat, but not only would I have to wait 8 weeks to have the job done, but the price was ridiculous.  I was really happy when I discovered Morency Marine Upholstery.  Patrick came out 3 days after I spoke to him, all the way from the Cape.  He had the job done in 2 weekends.  I was delighted that he charged me 1/3 of the other guy and had it done so quickly.  I chose a neutral, easy to clean vinyl, that plays off my cream leather sectional.  I was very happy to have that job done and it came out very nice.

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I bought this awesome nautical fabric and my Mom made curtains for the galley.  I ditched the blinds.  They were filthy and the clanking while underway is annoying.  I love the new curtains.  They’re super whimsical. DSC_0029 DSC_0055 The formica dinette table was removed and replaced with Corian.   I had them fabricate with a no-drip edging to keep that spilled milk off the floor. DSC_0033 Countertops were also changed to Corian. DSC_0034 My kids had their first boat Christmas. gaege xmas 2 These nasty valances are the next project.  Can’t wait to post finish photos.


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What do you think of the refit so far?  Love your feedback.  Leave a comment and your 2 cents!!!

A Trapezoid Is Not Square


This time it was not my fault. I wouldn’t mind, but when a company sends 2 different guys out to do a template, 2 different ways, you would expect that they would get it right…right?  Nope, not the case. Not only did they seam my countertop in the wrong place making it to wide to fit into the galley (kitchen), but they cut my head (bathroom) countertop as though it was a rectangle, when their measurements should have clearly indicated a trapezoid.  There are very few right angles on this boat.



I’m not trying to re-invent the wheel here folks. Lots of boat owners install Corian in their boats for the same reason that I decided to go with the material; it’s light.  This company has done boats in the past. I am not the first.  They are a reputable company that does all of the Corian fabrications for Lowes and Home Depot.  Not sure how they managed to screw up my order so bad, especially after having a laser template and a traditional constructed template, but they did.

The countertop that was too wide to fit in the galley.

The countertop that was too wide to fit in the galley.

On a brighter note, I had the cabinets refaced and I really like the way that they turned out. I went back and forth with wether to keep the old cabinets or get new ones, but honestly I have never seen more well-built, sturdy, hardy, solid cabinets in my life. I couldn’t see any point of removing such a strong product to replace with something of less quality.  So I gave them a facelift.





I made a couple of modifications, like discontinuing the dishwasher under the electric range.  I moved it to the opposite wall.  I also moved the microwave to over the range and bought a traditional double oven stove to replace the wall oven.  I brought the cabinet that is over the fridge out further to be flush with the fridge paneling and opened up the inside so it goes all the way back.  (You Hatteras folks should know what I mean) I don’t know why Hatteras closed  that off. I’m guessing because it’s not within easy reach, but I don’t mind standing on a chair.  That’s more good space, and you can never have enough storage on a boat.  I am not totally happy with the new fridge, but it’s good enough and at least I don’t have to worry about it randomly thawing my frozens.

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Removing the old countertops was no easy task. Plywood is screwed down and glued and then 3 layers of a thin stone like laminate was installed over.  The countertops were originally installed under the back wall, so we had to cut along the wall before removal.  We ended up sawzalling the countertops and removing them in pieces.

Once you begin to open stuff up on a boat, it’s like a can of worms, all kinds of hidden things pop up. I discovered that there is a vinyl-like bag under the galley counter that supplies air to the salon. The bag was completely disgusting; coated with years of dust and mildew.  This was the perfect opportunity, while the countertop was off to replace the bag, not to mention it got damaged during the countertop demo.  I had to take a trip to a marine canvas shop to purchase a new piece of vinyl so my Mom can make a new bag.  Lucky for me, she’s a seamstress by trade.

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My carpenter has begun the lower level flooring. I decided to go with a vinyl plank flooring because it’s light, durable and waterproof. I also installed a moisture barrier underneath to protect the subfloor.

I took the opportunity while the countertops are off to have shut-off valves installed.  I’m not sure why boats don’t have shut-off valves, but in my opinion they are very important.  Especially in an emergency.


I still have lots to do like finish the flooring, the valances and curtains throughout the boat, re-upolster the galley dinette, new wall coverings and the heads still need to be finished.  But so far, except the countertop goof, things are going well.

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